There is no loss, unless you feel the pain :)

Oh, it is all too philosophical, but it is very practical too. it is about my gold ring. I don't know how it all happened. I still remember how happy I was when I first put it on my finger. My elder sister bought and sent it to me through my aunty. I think I even dedicated one post on my earlier blog to express my happiness :P
and I found it back today after losing it for ----days. yes, I didn't even realize that it had slipped from my finger. Today I got it back and I just thanked the person without even inquiring abt the details. I didn't feel that it was too important. When I shared this incidence with my sister today, we both realized how important it is to be in pain to find that we have lost something precious. Unless, pain is created, loss is not loss. Everything is related to that feeling which is deep inside. Therefore, my dear readers, don't let any loss in your life get into your internal system to create pain. If it enters there, only then it is loss, since you lose your peace of mind, your equilibrium, your normal state, your confidence to deal with anything in your life, your dignity...............